The right kind of pilot

Dear future hubster,

If I'm ever accused of never being fully satisfied with given situation, in certain cases I may have to plead guilty as charged.

It appears that while I certainly wish for some attention and feel unappreciated if I don't receive any, I also dislike and feel uncomfortable if there is too much of it, or if it comes from sources and in ways I didn't particularly wish for.

In other words: attention is flattering, but only if it comes from whom I want it to, the way I want it to, when I want it to.

I may be flexible in all other aspects.